How we Swing

Some people may think that as a swinger we are not picky about who we fuck.  Or that we don't care where or how we meet who we fuck.  That would be incorrect.  

As swingers we go to clubs and resorts, as well as house parties that are specifically for swingers.  We originally joined LifeStyles, which is an organization geared specifically toward the LifeStyle.  We don't meet people in bars or discos, at regular parties, etc.  People in bars, etc., have no idea of how to play or what the rules are.  Yes, there are rules to swinging.  One rule is that everything is up to the woman.  If she doesn't like something, then it's a no go.  

Listen up ladies -- swinging protects you!!!  Your word is law.  If you are uncomfortable in a situation, all you have to do is speak up.  If you are in a reputable group of swingers, they will make sure your needs are taken care of.  

My personal favorite is going to resorts, either swing resorts, or regular resorts where we have a "takeover" planned.  

My favorite resort is actually in Mexico, but we haven't been there in years because of 9/11.  After 9/11 that resort went out of business due to travel constraints, and the airline that took us there went out of business.  So sad, it was in a beautiful little town, a lovely resort, and we met the most wonderful people there.  

We've gone to a number of conventions in Vegas and Reno, but we really don't enjoy the conventions much, so it's been a while since we've been to one.  

We often act as a host couple or care team members when we go to events.  Some people might think we're crazy to give up our time to do this, but (1) we get a break in the cost of the convention for doing this, and (2) we really have a great opportunity to meet more people this way.  

Condoms are an absolute must!  No condom, no play!  Not everyone in the LifeStyle feels this way, but that's definitely one of our rules. 

A lot of women in the LifeStyle are bisexual.  I think many couples get into it so the lady can indulge in woman on woman play, and the man can watch, if not actually participate.  Me, I prefer dick to pussy, but I'm never rude to a lady.  No, I won't munch her muff, but I have no problem at all if she wants to munch mine.  

Dean and I also have a secret code, so that if one of us feels uncomfortable in any situation, all we have to do is say the code phrase (no one else knows what it is except for me and Dean), and we will gently extricate ourselves from the situation without hurting anyone's feelings.  A code word, or a code phrase, is highly recommended.  

Do you swing?  If you don't, are you curious about it?  If you do swing, how do you swing?